6 Reasons to Do a First Look with Your Fiancé

Alright, lovebirds, gather ’round and let me drop some truth bombs about why you should absolutely do a first look before you tie the knot on your wedding. I’m Elicia, your friendly neighborhood photographer from Mid-Missouri, and I’m here to sprinkle some wisdom on your wedding day plans. Buckle up, because these six reasons are going to make you say, “Why the heck didn’t we think of this sooner?!”

1. Bye-Bye Wedding Day Nerves, Hello Feels!

Let’s face it, weddings are nerve-wracking. You’ve got Aunt Mildred critiquing the centerpieces, and your best man is probably already a few Captains deep. A first look on with your fiancé is your secret weapon against those pre-ceremony jitters. Imagine seeing your fiancé in a private, intimate moment where you can both breathe, laugh, and maybe even shed a few happy tears. It’s like a mini-rehearsal for the big “I do,” but with way more feels and way less audience.

2. Killer Photos, Minus the Photobombs

Listen, as your photographer, I live for those raw, unfiltered moments. But trying to capture your first glance amid a sea of overly enthusiastic relatives can be a nightmare. A first look ensures that we get those priceless reactions without Cousin Joe’s iPad blocking the view. Trust me, you’ll want these photos framed, not cropped.

3. More Time for those Busch Lights with a First Look

Let’s get real: Weddings are a whirlwind of activities. By doing a first look, you can knock out most of your couple portraits before the ceremony even starts. This means more time for you to enjoy that signature cocktail you agonized over choosing, or to join your guests in some pre-reception shenanigans. More drinks, less madness – it’s a win-win!

4. Because Traditions are So Last Year, Do the First Look

I get it, tradition is important. But so is doing what feels right for you as a couple. The whole “don’t see the bride before the wedding” thing is cute and all, but let’s not forget it was born out of some seriously outdated notions. It is 2024, you are completely capable of crafting your own traditions. Besides, who needs superstitions when you’ve got love and a killer photographer on your side?

5. Stealing Moments in a Chaotic Day

Weddings are beautiful chaos. One minute you’re cutting the cake, the next you’re in a conga line with people whose names you can’t remember. A first look carves out a precious slice of time just for you two. It’s a moment to connect, to remind each other why you’re doing this, and to soak in the gravity of the commitment you’re about to make. Plus, it’s a chance to whisper sweet nothings without a microphone in your face.

6. The Ultimate Wedding Instagram Moment

Let’s not pretend like this isn’t important. Your first look is pure Instagram gold. The raw emotion, the tears, the joy – it’s all so perfectly picturesque. And because it’s just the two of you (and me, the best friend you did not even know you needed), you can be your truest selves. Those genuine moments make for the most stunning photos, the kind that’ll rack up the likes and make your bridesmaids share. #Winning

Bonus: No Rushed Receptions with a First Glance

Ever been to a wedding where the couple disappears for what feels like forever to take photos? Yeah, it’s kind of a well needed buzzkill. By having a first look, you get those essential photos done early, meaning you can actually enjoy your cocktail hour with your guests. More time mingling, less time missing out on Aunt Karen’s questionable dance moves.

So, there you have it. Six solid reasons to embrace the first look. It’s a game-changer for your nerves, your timeline, and your photo album. And remember, this is your day. Do what feels right for you and your love story. If that means ditching tradition for a first look, then I say go for it. Your future selves will thank you, and so will your wedding photographer.

Ready to capture those epic first look moments? Let’s chat and make some magic happen. Because at Elicia Wilson Photography, we’re all about turning your love story into stunning visual memories, one click at a time.

Stay fabulous, Elicia